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raiders1000 38 M
3  Articles
How to have a good date   1/17/2004

Listen to the female and do what she wants to do and be open and honest about yourself and be yourself and try to relax and have fun but you must make sure that you are honest


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
why oh why   1/16/2004

Why is it that after being married and now going thru divorce is it so hard to find a sexual partner is it me or the women im after seems to me it should be a lil like riding a bike but maybe i just need a refresher course


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
RE to : "Why do men think they can meet you Monday . . ."   1/14/2004

"AdultFriendFinder.com The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site" <br> . You're able to see those same words in the top left area of your screen right now!! Why do people spend good money on things they don't understand? The reason why you are upset is because you are on an ADULT SEX site!! Not a dating service!! Dating sites are everywhere! AdultFriendFinder has one, too! Check it ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 133 Votes ,9.18 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Profiles & Pics   1/12/2004

I see a lot of the single guys here complaining about not getting responses from women on this site. Fella's you are your own worst enemies. I am 23, thin, healthy and I am told quite pretty. When I had my "Single" profile up I got about 15 or 20 emails on a slow day, plus winks, plus network invitations, etc., and that is without nude or near nude pics posted. Now if I was busy for a few ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 218 Votes ,9.28 Score
re tonypornstars article......ok look at THIS about dating mistah   1/11/2004

Did you ever STOP and think that maybe it is because the woman does not wanna be an endless piece of chattle and ass ??? In other words , tired of feeling ''used'', though sure , she loves sex too!! But some still have dignity and self-control... what a concept , huh? LOL Why don't YOU get real! Times have changed. Women have been thought to ''hold the key'', well ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
carmeltoned 41 F
1  Article
sexy lady looking for other ladies for friendship and intimacy   1/5/2004

hello i am a 21 year old african american female in te downtown nashville area. i stand at five feet two inches tall and weigh 120 pounds. i have brown hair and brown eyes and sexy hips, lips, eyes, and thighs. i am seeking a lady or ladies for intimacy and friendships. women only-no men(i have that part covered). yet, i am having a hard time finding someone. i have been told that i am cute ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 56 Votes ,7.85 Score
rm_Zeppo69Play 65 M
1  Article
The worst internet dating horror story ever in my life   1/3/2004

I thought I’d submit this to a “Most Horrible Dates” contest, hahaha. Maybe I’ll get lucky and win a consolation prize, hahaha or maybe everyone will feel so bad they’ll go together and get me an escort, ha right I WISH hahahaha… This actually happened, of course… New Year’s Eve 2003. Here you go. <br> Her: What happened? ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 31 Votes ,0.75 Score
rolee1999 53 M
3  Articles
Women in South OC Look here   1/1/2004

If you are interested in a and complete relaxation from one of the most intuitive and attentive men in the area, look up my profile...rolee1999


0 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes
New to dating - want to ask a co-worker out after work.   12/31/2003

I work with a very pretty single redheaded lady. I am 55yo and she is 50yo. She looks 30. I secretly love and admire her. This is not the usual caveman sex thing. I really do like her a lot. I have been told she likes me too. We both work until 10pm. How do I ask her out? What should I say to her when I approach her? Where do I take her? Do I settle for coffee or do I ask her to have a beer ...


2 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
RE: getting past rejection fear!   12/31/2003

What kind of clubs do you join? Where do you find them? What if you don't know how to dance? Lastly, is age 55 too old for a still-single man to get into the dating scene. Do ladies in their 40s have an interest in men in their 50s?


0 Comments, 0 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
jayspleasure 59 M
1  Article
Getting a response...   12/30/2003

I agree with 44DDGIRL on her post in 'articles', I was a member once and when it expired i didn't re sign up. I would(as a member) email someone who I was interested in and never even get an answer from them, not even a "not interested", some people are just fake or browsers. I'm not a member now and if someone emails me I will answer but still most are really not interested in meeting. ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 22 Votes ,6.97 Score
rm_daviecowboy 56 M
2  Articles
are there REAL women here?   12/30/2003

With everything I have read and seen here on AdultFriendFinder, it seems that about half of all the responses from women are really spammers/porno sites trying to get you to spend even more money on their wares. Are there some real women out there, and how am I supposed to know if you're real or not?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,7.17 Score
any woman who needs a New Years Lickin'   12/28/2003

I am a man in search of the woman. New Years could be the start of something wet and wild...time2grow2 <br> Showers, baths, tongues and lips, thighs and hips... safe sex a must, and it must be mutual, I like to give better than I get, but I like a woman who can give me more than I give her...ie; 23 years of marraige, she came 3 to 5 times every time we made love... I usually only ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 114 Votes ,7.08 Score
you're 26 and you know it all!   12/28/2003

well in you'rewhole 26 yrs.i'm REALLY glad you told us what a woman is all about.i'd like to see what you have to say after another 20 yrs.i for one would be really glad to read you're words of wisdom, no i don't expect anything from you, except the BS that you are about to give back, in you're whole 26 yrs.of wisdom.hopefully life gives you A REAL GOOD HAND!


0 Comments, 5 Views, 67 Votes ,7.19 Score
puzzle piece's   12/21/2003

i find that relationships are like parts of a puzzle. one time you find a man that is good looking , great personality , loving but sucks in bed or just doesnt fil your needs despite his efforts. then there is the guy who is great in bed , but you arent attracted in any way to him ..its just the sex you have. then there is the guy who has everything for you ...with one exception..he is ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 29 Votes ,7.45 Score
whats the deal?????!!!!   12/16/2003

so tell me guys....why is it when your stright up and honest with your " partner " they do everything they can to try and see if your full of shit. Why not just trust that women to be honest, faithful, loving and a fuck monster in the bedroom? No, the guy has to play the same games he gets pissed about from other chicks! phone games, e-mail games, if you love me games. what a load of ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 25 Votes ,6.34 Score
snowmanhot 90 M
31  Articles
RE: Where do I find the words   12/15/2003

We all have gone throught the agony of how to start a conversation. If you met anyone that is of the slightest interest or you find something you like then use her for practice until you find someone you are find very interesting - your practice will then ease your way to greet her. The first and easiest way to greet a person (anyone) is "Hi!" This is easy to say, cannot offend and is ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 54 Votes ,7.49 Score
mind games   12/14/2003

I am so sick and tired of people playing mind games. They make you think you are sexy and want to meet you and have sex, or what ever you want, and then when you make plans with them, they suddenly think its too fast, or they are enguaged, or married and wont cheet on them. Well my question is if they don"want to cheat on their spouce or future spouse, what the hell are they doing on a ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
Re: what's with the social sceen?   12/13/2003

I have been single for many, many years. I have noticed that the "social scene" is geared towards couples, every time. For example, my company Christmas parties have a cost that includes dinner for 2. And our work contact list doesn't have a "next of kin" on it - it has a "spouse" entry. <br> It may sound negative, but I believe the single has a hard road ahead of them in a ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Straight 8 guys looking for Bi females....how, where. hard to find   12/7/2003

I've been looking for an ongoing steady relationship with a bi-female so I can becaome a couples and enjoy a wonderful lady who is open minded. I'm close to Toronto, and do you think I can find a single lady who is bi and open mined to consentual sex with others.... its hard. Where are they all.?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 61 Votes ,7.39 Score
rm_nolafool 38 M
1  Article
just dating? i dont know   12/3/2003

i jsut met this lady at a bar shes 1 year younger than me.. but she svery nice.. we have meet a couple itmeas and play pool alot together.. but i asked her if would could get a bit more serious.. and she told me ... she was only dating right now... anyone care 2 help me out here?


0 Comments, 4 Views, 44 Votes ,4.94 Score
wontgosoft 46 M
1  Article
what's with the social sceen?   11/30/2003

Over the last year that I've been single, I have found it so difficult to find that somebody to be with. Is it me or is it society in general. Is there any suggestions for this man out there?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 24 Votes ,6.99 Score
Re: To ...Just Sex   11/18/2003

Have you ever heard of getting to know someone first! HELLO, I mean if someone e-mailed me I am not even about to tell them come right over and here is my address. Mainly with all the freaks out there. It is not good to just open your life up to someone that you meet on the net. ALWAYS meet in a public place first and get to feel if you are even comfortable with that person enough to @#ck ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 91 Votes ,7.50 Score
shaft2003isback 49 M
4  Articles
Girls, does size really matter?   11/18/2003

For the ladies only, I want to know if you think size really matters. In order to vote, use higher numbers if you agree and lower numbers if you disagree. Or type a response and tell me why it matters to you.


0 Comments, 2 Views, 79 Votes ,6.71 Score
rm_Brnsugr 49 F
2  Articles
single and scared   11/14/2003

I have been divorced for over five years and am kind of afraid to get back into the dating field. I haven't dated or had sex in the past five years. I think there maybe someone out there for me but not sure. I got out of a relaly bad relationship and am afraid that the next relationship will be the same. Can anyone give me any pointers? Considering I am a very shy person what should I ...


0 Comments, 240 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
what is it about a woman that attracts you to her?   11/12/2003

If a guy sees a woman at a bar, store, street what is it about her that will get him to come over and say, Hi, I find you attractive and would like to chat for a minute.. This would help me out as i am an attractive woman who used to get hit on a lot but these days it isnt happening as much.. Is it because I am getting older or the men less bolder? Thanks Dee


0 Comments, 19 Views, 136 Votes ,6.27 Score
SexyBigAss2002 48 F
1  Article
My first date!!!   11/2/2003

I am engaged to the man who stood me up for our first date over 3 ½ months ago, weird huh!!! <br> We were supposed to go out to dinner and just hang out when he called to tell me that a friend of his needed to go the hospital for stitches. I said ok, maybe another day, just let me know how your friend is. Well, he emailed me a day later to tell me that his friend needed only 4 ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
This is getting tame....   10/31/2003

Clearly the mighty dolar has told at last... All the top 50 most popular profiles have suddenly become those with face shots>!>?!?!?? move them to friendfinder.com! This is a SEX site. Please AdultFriendFinder owners don't compromise just cos there seems to be more money in dating than sex hookups!!!!!


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
rm_emtgirly66 58 F
1  Article
I dont owe you anything!!!!!!!!   10/30/2003

Why is it that some men think you should bend over backwards to make their lives easy? I have always thought that dating was a two way street, you have to give to receive. When sitting up a first date both parties should be able to drive a place that is equal in distance from each others house. So men please dont expect women to come to you all the time!!!!!!!!! It gets old fast.


2 Comments, 352 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
Re: Myth of the Older Man   10/30/2003

"More experienced" does not mean that the person has had a bunch of women but rather, has grown wise to how to please a woman. He may have only had a few partners in his lifetime, yet has learned exactly the way a woman likes to be pleasured and what really makes a woman crazy! I am 24 and am in a D/s relationship where he is 51. You may say "wow" or gasp even however, He Really knows ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score